One question people have when it comes to dating is the pacing of sex. When is too soon to have sex with a new partner? Dating expert and founder of LastFirstDate.com Sandy Weiner says that main thing is to know yourself and your own boundaries…and to be honest about this with prospective partners in a way that doesn’t put up a wall. Proceed at a pace that makes you comfortable. Having sex too soon, she suggests, can create unrealistic expectations in a new relationship, so be sure to pace yourself accordingly.