The Internet has become so central to our lives that it has become tricky to determine how much time on the Internet is too much. We shop online… pay bills… check sports scores… play video games… visit chat rooms… and write blogs. In a nationwide telephone survey of 2,513 adults, researchers at Stanford University found that about 69% were regular Internet users — and a significant percentage showed signs that their habits were out of control…
13.7% found it hard to stay away from the Internet for days at a time.
12.4% stayed online longer than intended very often or often.
8.7% attempted to conceal non-essential Internet use from family, friends and employers.
5.9% felt their relationships suffered because of excessive Internet use.
To help determine if you are addicted to the Internet, ask yourself the following…
If you answer “yes” to any of the questions, take steps to cut back.
Learning moderation is the key. Strategies…
Change the timing. If you log on first thing in the morning, wait until after breakfast or lunch instead. If you tend to stay up too late while on the computer, establish a rule that you must turn it off at, say, 8:00 pm.
Set limits. Limit session time (set a kitchen timer or alarm clock) or the number of sessions per day or week.
Put reminders near the computer, saying, “Are you done yet?” or “Do you know where your wife is?”
Cultivate off-line relationships. If you’re constantly socializing online, look for ways to have fun and feel connected in person instead.
Consider whether you’ve been using the Internet to avoid other issues. Perhaps you’re bored at work or not happy in your marriage. Focusing on the Internet is a way to avoid dealing with the problem. You may need to address any underlying issues more directly through counseling.
