Becky Aikman, a New York–based journalist and author of Saturday Night Widows: The Adventures of Six Friends Remaking Their Lives(Crown), the memoir of a group that Aikman founded to help herself and five other widows focus on happiness rather than grief. The former BusinessWeek editor lost her husband to cancer in 2004 after 20 years of marriage. www.BeckyAikman.com
Advice from the “Saturday Night Widows” Becky Aikman was in her 40s when she lost her husband to cancer. She…