Douglas D. Wilson, CFP, CTFA, who counsels executors and trustees through his Honolulu-based firm, Trustee Consulting, LLC. He is a former senior vice president of First Hawaiian Bank’s Trust and Investments Division and is author of The Everything Executor and Trustee Book and Executor & Trustee Survival Guide.
Although most people choose friends or family members to be executors of their estates and trustees of their trusts, some…